In this article I will tell you the secrets of happy marriage or a relationship that lasts forever. There are many things you ignore and they influences your relationship negatively or positively. Be accurate about what you are doing and why? What you want ? these are the questions every person should know for themselves. You can’t just start a relation without  your own awareness. If you do these things you might end up leaving it out of frustration. So, if you want to know what makes a relationship healthy, how to build a healthy relationship , needs of your partner , your own needs , how to keep the  tingly feeling alive in your relationship , how to stay happy. Read this article thoroughly and write the points you think are helpful for you. Note these points and focus on them. Instead of blaming the other person for it. try to work on yourself as well.  Hang in there.

what do people want in a relationship? your partner needs

Everyone has different relationship. There are no expertise when it comes to the relation. So, a third person can never help you properly to make your relationship better.

What do people want in a relationship is a very interesting topic.Both partners know each other. It’s a agreement between you two. Only you two should solve your problems.

Step by step guide;

I will guide you step by step to know what do people need in a relationship.

Early agreements:

Don’t just fall for a person and be ready to live your life with them. This might sounds romantic. But it is not. If you get quickly in a relationship without knowing properly about your partner. You are in a huge trouble.

And by knowing I mean

-Dreams

-Personality

-Thinking

-Emotions

-Agreeableness

-Openness

-Responsibilties

Be aware of these things. So you don’t regret at the end.

See beyond;

Don’t just fall for the looks. Look out of the box. Have knowledge about what this person is in to. What are his/her needs. Why he/she wants to be with me?

Don’t be just impressed by their physical traits. Find out about their personality traits.

Give attention;

If you can’t give attention to your partner don’t get in to the relationship. Relationships are not always healthy. There are highs and lows.

But your attention is the most important thing your partner will crave till end.

By attention I am not saying to spend whole day together. But 1 hour or maybe 30 minutes of your proper attention can be enough. Do this everyday. And watch your relationship growing stronger.

Gifts;

Bring gifts for your partner. Make him/her happy. You will see gifts really makes other person feel special about relationship

Many people assume that only expensive gifts makes other happy.

Like costly phones , laptops , watch , dress , cars.

 But its not true. There is no value of gift. The value is of time you took to buy gift. Value is of money you spend , value is of your heart and you.

It doesn’t  matter either you gift a  simple flower , a chocolate or a mug.

The charm of these  simple things lasts for a longer time.

Be vocal;

Be vocal about you want. Don’t just wait for your partner to know each detail about you. Communicate. Tell what is bothering you and why? Be expressive

It is a very important point.

It is the need of every relationship. Your partner want to know. They cant just assume things.

Play;

Its not the romantic dinners , dates or vacations that makes you happy in a relationship.

Try to play with each other. Not with the feelings though lol

Play games like cricket , badminton , football.

Indoor games like monopoly , blindfold , two truths and a lie

 These little activities will engage you in better mood.   It is indeed a special time with fun activity.

Emotional bond;

Every human being experiences emotional feelings. And these emotions make our life meaningful.

Be there when you partner is feeling down or is silent . recognize  thier emotional feelings. Be kind, help him/her. Make them happy.

This psychological time of your partner is crucial.

 They might not say, but they need you the most in this time.

Even if you don’t speak a word, but stays there. Your partner will be satisfied.

Accept their insecurities;

In this world, everyone is insecure somehow about themselves. Your partner might have body , facial , communicational, psychological insecurities.

Don’t make fun of them. Instead talk with them. Calm them down and be supportive.

Don’t throw tantrums at them.

laughing therapy;

Humour keeps your relation alive. Be funny, crack jokes. Have fun.

Make them laugh hard. Your partner always needs fun  in relationship

Respect;

Respect is the right of every one in relationship. Doesn’t matter what your gender is.

Always respect your partner, for who they are and what they want.

Their likes , dislikes , mood swings. Moreover , respect in general. Don’t use foul language.

Or don’t talk in an abusive manner to make them feel humiliated. Respect your partner in private and in public as well.

Give space;

Space is very underrated in a relationships. But it is extremely important. Every human needs a break from world. We all want to stay alone for sometime.

Or sometimes we just want to enjoy our own company. Don’t invade that space. Don’t interrupt there with your partner’s space. 

Be kind at that time.

Don’t make scenarios in your mind that he is ignoring me , avoiding me etc

compliments;

give your partner compliments.

 If your partner

-looks nice

 –cooked  delicious food

-smells great

-baked something for you

-smiles

-crack jokes

be expressive and compliments his/her. Don’t neglect their efforts.

Compliment there personality and their precious smile.

Spend quality time;

Everybody talk about this. But they don’t really know what a quality time is.

Is it to spend time in a restaurant and eating expensive steak.

Well , no. quality times is anytime that involves only you and your partner. Where you both focus on each other while talking ,  walking whatever

You can spend quality time by

-A morning walk / evening walk

-By sitting and talking

–Drinking coffee together

–Eating together

–Working together

-Getting ready

–Cooking together

–Skin care together

–Baking brownies or cupcakes at 2 am

All of this is a quality time. Try to spend it with your partner.

short term plans;

go for a picnic or a vacation that lasts less than a  week depending upon your schedule.

Explore places together , enjoy make memories

Spend time together in different cities , resturants , hotels.

Explore with your partner and remember it forever.

Don’t ignore in public;

Never ignore your partner in family gatherings or friends get together.

Friends and family are too close. You cant leave them of course . they are part of us.

Make partner and family both your priority.

Keep in contact. Talk , share that’s how things work out

Cook something;

Cooking is an artistic way of love. cook something for your partner.

 Make it a lill bit fancy. Do a little effort and enjoy together.

Be kind;

Always be kind with your partner. No matter what, don’t be abusive.

Be kind either its about their dreams , jobs , mood swings whatever!

Netflix and chill;

Watch movie , seasons together.

Netflix and chill together is a modern way of love.

Visit parents;

Visit each other parents together. Be kind with them. Treat them respectfully. Enjoy with both families

Go on vacations with both families. In short, makes each other families your priority too.

Make memories with them as well.

Cherish these little moments.